Little Things That Could Scare Him Away

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When you are in a relationship whether it is a brand new one or one that has been blooming for quite a while you might be wondering if he is here to stay or if you will end up scaring him away before the relationship has run its course.  The good news is that there are several things that you should know that will probably scare him away.  If you figure these things out now it could save you some heartbreak later on.  Simply read on below to learn more about these items that you should avoid.

Figuring Out Future Plans Together

If you are a person who likes to plan things ahead of time this can be good except for when it comes to your relationship.  Planning too much into the future might just scare him away.  Things such as vacations and parties are good topics to plan ahead of time but when you start discussing topics such as marriage, children and joint bank accounts you might see him turn around and run especially if you have not been together for very long.  This is the time to be patient and watch the relationship grow.

Leave Your Items At Home

It is a big step when a male has you over to his home for the first time.  This is not the time to move some of your personal things in.  Therefore you should leave your toothbrush and your clothes at your own home.  If you are in a hurry to make his home your own you will find that he is going to run the other way.  It is important to remember that he is still getting used to the fact that he has a girlfriend.

Elaborate Gifts Too Early

There are many people who like to celebrate everything they can.  However this can become dangerous when you are in a new relationship.  If you want to celebrate your one-month anniversary you should discuss this with him before you run out and purchase an elaborate gift to give him.  You might find that he only wants to celebrate at the six-month anniversary.


Meeting the parents can often be a touchy subject.  If you are a young person your parents will probably want to meet him almost immediately but if you are living on your own meeting the parents might be a big deal.  Many times the parents are not introduced until the relationship becomes serious.  You do not want to drag the other person in the relationship off to meet your parents if he is not ready.

Checking Up On Him

If you are calling your boyfriend constantly just to check up on him this is not normal but it is normal to call and ask how his day is going and just to say hello.  If you are always sending him a text message of calling him he might get tired of hearing from you and decide that you are not the one for him.

Getting A Pet Together

If you start to get serious about getting a pet together this could be another thing that scares him away.  This is a huge commitment that might sound like a good idea and fun at the time but can last for several years.  It will be important to discuss who will get the pet in the event that you break up.  This should be something that should be considered only after you have been together for a long while.

Being in a relationship is one of the toughest things you will ever accomplish.  There are many things that can scare the other person away.  The above topics are only a few of the most common ones.  It is important to discuss things with the other person involved before making any long-term decisions.

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